Trust & safety
Real people. Really verified.
Safety is not an afterthought here — it is built into the product from the very first step. This is a place where you can open up, explore, and connect with confidence, knowing that the person on the other side is exactly who they say they are.
How verification works
Four layers, before anyone sees your profile
Every member goes through the same checks. Here is exactly what that looks like.
1. Government ID
We accept a Sri Lankan National Identity Card (NIC), Passport, or Driver's Licence. You photograph your document during onboarding, and it stays securely stored and never shared with other members.
2. Live selfie
Your selfie is captured through your device camera in the moment, not chosen from your gallery. This means it is fresh, current, and much harder to fake with someone else's photo.
3. Human review
A member of our team personally compares your ID and selfie side by side before approving your profile. Automated pre-checks help prioritise the queue, but the final decision is always made by a person.
4. Mutual interest gating
Your photos and contact details are only revealed once you have both shown interest in each other. Messaging only opens after verification on both sides.
Good habits
A few friendly tips
Verification makes it much harder for bad actors to get in, but these habits help keep any online experience positive.
Take your time. A genuine person will never rush you into making decisions or sharing personal details.
Meet somewhere comfortable. For early meetings, choose a public place and let a friend or family member know where you are going.
Keep money out of it. Never send money, gift cards, or financial details to someone you have not met in person, no matter how well you feel you know them.
Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it is okay to step back. Your comfort matters.
Reporting a concern
Every profile page has a Report and Block option. Reports go straight to our moderation team, who review them promptly. We take every report seriously and follow up when needed — you are never alone in this.
Ready to meet someone who's really who they say they are?
Create your profile, get verified, and browse with confidence.